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Welcome to the new beginning

Welcome to the new beginning


(Antonio Mulatu)

We are back again with a very new style, It is a common trend to see such kind of advertisement on restaurants and related businesses. They come to this type of advertisement when their business starts to collapse or even worse on the verge of bankruptcy.  Before they ended up their businesses for nothing, for short period of time they will terminate the service and will promise to come back again. After a while, they will come back again making some structural changes like painting the wall of their business center and additional food stuff and recipes so as to satisfy their old and new customers.

This tells us that sometimes in life we are not expected to go only forward but backward to reflect on our past mistakes, unhappy life journey, failures, hassles, ups and downs of uncertainties, to shape and make worthy of  today’s living and future endeavors.

Our yesterday’s failure and misfortune can be rectified by trying again and again without losing hope. Then, is there anything that you need to work out and regain it in your life? Sure, there are certain arenas of life worth reflecting on…

How is your marriage?

On planet earth everything will fade away through passage of time. The love, affection, passion, respect, understanding….partners once they had will go away (this is not a crude judgment and generalization; there might be exceptions like the endless love among some partners). Now, if you are feeling rejected, not cared and loved, try again to resume your honeymoon period love, affection and understanding to lead a harmonies, healthy and happy marriage.  Give it a try; you will be amazed by its result.

Social life?

As you all know social life and connectedness is very important for oneself and others. But sometimes, our social tie might end up in enmities and hostilities. So, whatever happened to you due to your social life, it is better to forgive and give a second chance for the people who you think they have importance place in your heart.


Maybe you had  tried and worked hard to be successful but failed; hence, at the end of the day you gave up deciding never to go back and make another trial.  “If you fail, never give up because F.A.I.L Means “First Attempt in Learning” and  End is not the end, in fact E.N.D means “Effort Never Dies” if you get No as an answer, remember N.O means “Next Opportunity” so let us be positive.”


Attitude is altitude; it will shape your personality and behavior. Do not see things from only one perspective, there are other ways to deal with things you could not understand easily. Further, do not claim as people hate you but ask what people can hate about your behavior and shape your attitude in positive thoughts and make harmony with self and others to be happy and accepted.

Hopeless ?

As the saying, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, human action is grounded in human motives and motives are typically grounded in human desire and perceived  interest. We routinely categorize, make assumptions, interpret and infer from within a viewpoint we use to advance our personal ends and desires. To minimize our egocentric drives, we must develop critical and creative thinking in character as well.  Further, “Sometimes, we need to be hurt in order to grow. We must lose in order to win. Sometimes, some lessons are best learned through pain.” Therefore never give up and lose hope.


Every New Year you might promise and swear to quit your addiction but you could not succeed in doing so. In fact, you broke your promise and still your mind is nagging you as a moral guardian.  But in reality addiction cannot go easily as it needs commitment and behavioral change. First, persuade your mind that you can control your addictive behavior and change it in action. Working on mind and behavior is decisive than being careless feeling as you cannot do anything about your addiction. Keep trying you will not be the same person again.

Finally, in life there are situations that help us to go back and start from where we quit leading a healthy and successful life. So, do not gloom everything as it is already vanished and dead. Keep in mind that there is a way to be good again and never lose hope. Start your life in a new episode you will succeed it.

ይህን ጽሑፍ በአማርኛ ለማንበብ እዚህ ይጫኑ፡-